Anti-bullying

What is Bullying?

Bullying can be defined as:

‘Behaviour by an individual or a group, repeated over time that intentionally hurts another individual either physically or emotionally’
– DfE ‘Preventing and Tackling Bullying 

Bullying is a combination of what someone did and the impact that had; bullying impacts on a person’s capacity to feel in control of themselves. This feeling is what we term as their sense of ‘agency’. It is behaviour that can make people feel hurt, threatened, frightened and left out.

This behaviour happens face to face and online. It can include behaviours such as:

  •  Name calling and teasing in person and online
  •  Being hit
  • Having belongings taken or damaged
  • Being ignored or left out
  •  Receiving abusive texts or messages on social  media
  • Having rumours spread about you in person and online
  • Being targeted for who you are or who you are perceived to be
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These behaviours can harm physically or emotionally   and, while the actual behaviour may not be repeated, the threat may be sustained over time, typically by actions such as looks, messages, confrontations, physical interventions, or the fear of these. A bullying incident only has to happen once to have a lasting impact on a person. We know that bullying takes something away from people; that is one of the things that makes it different from other behaviours. It takes away people’s ability to feel in control and take effective action. We need to keep the focus on giving children and young people this control back when we look to address bullying behaviour.

Sometimes a person can feel bullied, but they may be over reacting to a situation or have not understood situations due to their own needs. In this instance, we still need to deal with how it has made them feel. Similarly, if a person tries to bully someone but does not succeed, we still need to deal with how they behaved.

A child or young person is still more likely to be bullied face to face than online. Online bullying can be very public and visible, but the bullying most children experience is private and not done in full view of everyone else.

Protected Characteristics

Bullying behaviour may be a result of prejudice that relates to perceived or actual differences, also known as protected characteristics. This can lead to behaviour and language that includes racism, sexism, homophobia, biphobia or transphobia, or prejudice and discrimination towards disability.  Prejudice-based bullying is when bullying behaviour is motivated by prejudice. Prejudice-based bullying can be based on any characteristic unique to a child or young person’s identity or circumstance and law protects some of these characteristics. The Equality Act 2010 makes it unlawful to discriminate against people with ‘protected characteristics’ these are: Age, disability, gender reassignment, pregnancy and maternity, marriage and civil partnerships, race, sex, religion or belief and sexual orientation.

Prejudice-based bullying includes the protected characteristics and other prejudices, which are not listed in the Equality Act. For example, prejudice arising from socio-economic background, if a child or young person is Looked After, or for their general   appearance. There is a need to address the root cause of prejudice as well as responding effectively to incidents as they arise. We know places where prejudice is challenged, and   where there is a culture of respecting difference, are places where bullying is less likely to thrive.

As parents and carers, we must be clear that regardless of your personal views, targeting a person for these reasons is not acceptable. Organisations including schools, sports clubs, youth clubs etc are expected to challenge this behaviour

Online or Cyber bullying

Bullying that takes place online is still bullying and is now known as cyber bullying. We cannot think of ‘bullying’ in one respect and ‘online bullying’ in another – it is still about relationships that are not healthy. It is still behaviour done by someone to someone else, it is the ‘where’ this is taking place that is new. Name-calling, hurtful comments and rumours are the three most common behaviours on line and face to face. As children and young people spend more time online, the behaviour they have always exhibited and experienced goes with them to where they are spending their time. They have access to smart phones, laptops and tablets, and this technology allows them to communicate in different ways. They still experience name-calling, being left out and having rumours spread about them – but it takes place online, on social media sites, via phones and tablets and through gaming platforms.

To children and young people, the internet is another place they go to, to meet with friends and socialise.  In order to help keep them safe you have to take an active interest in what they are doing online – where they are going and whom they are interacting with, in the same way that you would if they were going into town, to the sports centre, youth club, or any other physical space. And that means having an understanding of their online environment and how to make it safe. You cannot abdicate responsibility to software or service providers, you need to make sure you’re switched on to the ways in which young people are communicating so that if they tell you they’re being bullied, you know how to react. Children and young people do not differentiate a great deal between friendships online and in person; most of their interactions online are with friends  and people they interact with in other areas, such as at school and where they live.

Information about cyber bullying can be found on our online safety section of this website and in our weekly online safety blog.

Find out more about Online Safety at PHS Here  >Read Our Online Safety Blogs Here  >

When responding to cyberbullying concerns, the school will:

  • Act as soon as an incident has been reported or identified.
  • Provide appropriate support for the person who has been cyberbullied, and work with the person who has carried out the bullying to ensure that it does not happen again.
  • Encourage the person being bullied to keep any evidence (screenshots) of the bullying activity to assist any investigation.
  • Take all available steps where possible to identify the person responsible. This may include:
    • Looking at use of the school systems
    • Identifying and interviewing possible witnesses
    • Contacting the service provider and the police, if necessary.
  • Work with the individuals and online service providers to prevent the incident from spreading and assist in removing offensive or upsetting material from circulation. This may include:
    • Support reports to a service provider to remove content if those involved are unable to be identified or if those involved refuse to or are unable to delete content.
    • Confiscating and searching pupils’ electronic devices, such as mobile phones, in accordance with the law and the school searching and confiscation policy. (We will access the DfE ‘Searching, screening and confiscation at school’ and Childnet cyberbullying guidance to ensure that the school’s powers are used proportionately and lawfully).
    • Requesting the deletion of locally-held content and content posted online if they contravene school behavioural policies.
  • Where an individual can be identified, the school will ensure that appropriate sanctions are implemented to change the attitude and behaviour of the bully, as well as ensuring access to any additional help or support they may need.
  • Inform the police if a criminal offence has been committed.
  • Provide information to staff and pupils regarding steps they can take to protect themselves online. This may include:
    • Advising those targeted not to retaliate or reply.
    • Providing advice on blocking or removing people from contact lists.
    • Helping those involved to consider and manage any private information they may have in the public domain.

What to do if you need to talk to us about bullying

Percy Hedley School recognises that all forms of bullying, especially if left unaddressed, can have a devastating effect on individuals; it can create a barrier to learning and have serious consequences for mental wellbeing.

By effectively preventing and tackling bullying our school can help to create a safe and respectful environment, where pupils are able to fulfil their potential.

The following steps will be taken when dealing with any incidents of bullying reported to the school:

  • If you believe that your child has been a victim of bullying, has witnessed bullying or has been a perpetrator of bullying behaviour, please get in touch with the class team or the DSL to discuss this matter.  All of our pupils have their own individual needs and each case will be looked at in isolation, to ensure all of our pupils are supported to understand and work through their feelings and behaviours.
  • If bullying is suspected or reported, the incident will be dealt with immediately by the member of staff who has been approached or witnessed the concern.
  • The school will provide appropriate support for the person being bullied – making sure they are not at risk of immediate harm and will involve them in any decision-making, as appropriate, alongside the family.
  • The DSL will be informed of all bullying concerns, especially where there may be safeguarding issues.
  • A clear and precise account of bullying incidents will be recorded by the school in accordance with existing procedures. This will include recording appropriate details regarding decisions and action taken.
  • The school will speak with and inform other staff members, where appropriate, including the therapy team and the PSHE lead  and where appropriate the E-Safety lead, where a responsive curriculum or individual therapy work may be needed.
  • The school will ensure parents/carers are kept informed about the concern and action taken, as appropriate and in line with child protection and safeguarding policies
  • Appropriate support will be put into place for all parties involved.  This will be implemented in consultation with  the families concerned.
  • If necessary, other agencies may be consulted or involved, for example the police if a criminal offence has been committed, or Early Help if a child is felt to be at risk of significant harm.
  • Where the bullying of or by pupils takes place off school site or outside of normal school hours (including cyberbullying), the school will ensure that the concern is fully investigated and responded to in line with our Online Safety Policy and the school behaviour policy.

If required, the DSL will collaborate with DSLs at other settings.

Working to prevent bullying in our school

The whole school community will:  

  • Create and support an inclusive environment which promotes a culture of mutual respect, consideration and care for others, which will be upheld by all.
  • Have a cohesive PSHE curriculum, which is mapped across all subject areas in the curriculum, which model our school values and the expectations of behaviour within our school. This will also include a range of opportunities and approaches for addressing bullying throughout the curriculum and other activities, such as: through displays, assemblies, peer support, the school/student council, etc.
  • Respond to school issues with responsive curriculums designed by the PSHE steering group.
  • Recognise that bullying can be perpetrated or experienced by any member of the community, including adults and children (child on child abuse).
  • Train all staff, including teaching staff, support staff (e.g. administration staff, lunchtime support staff and site support staff) and pastoral staff, to identify all forms of bullying and take appropriate action, following the school’s policy and procedures, including recording and reporting incidents.
  • Recognise the potential for children with Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND) to be disproportionally impacted by bullying and will implement additional pastoral support as required.
  • Recognise that bullying may be affected and influenced by gender, age, ability and culture of those involved.
  • Openly discuss differences between people (protected characteristics) that could motivate bullying, such as: children with different family situations, such as looked after children or those with caring responsibilities, religion, ethnicity, disability, gender, sexuality or appearance related difference.
  • Ensure anti-bullying has a high profile throughout the year, reinforced through key opportunities such as anti-bullying week
  • Provide systematic opportunities to develop pupils’ social and emotional skills, including building self-esteem.
  • Challenge practice and language (including ‘banter’) which does not uphold the school values of Respect, Teamwork and Resilience.
  • Be encouraged to use technology, especially mobile phones and social media, positively and responsibly through targeted Online Safety sessions and throughout the curriculum. As well as though specific responsive curriculums for class groups and individuals.
  • Work with staff, the wider community and outside agencies to prevent and tackle concerns including all forms of prejudice-based and discriminatory bullying.
  • Actively create “safe spaces” for vulnerable children and young people.
  • Celebrate success and achievements to promote and build a positive school ethos.

Involvement of Pupils

We will:  

  • Involve pupils in policy writing and decision making, to ensure that they understand the school’s approach and are clear about the part they play in preventing bullying. Our student council were involved in the writing of our pupil friendly bullying policy and worked with us to ensure it was suitable for our pupils.
  •  Regularly gain pupils’ views on the extent and nature of bullying, where appropriate.
  • Ensure that all pupils know how to express worries and anxieties about bullying.
  • Ensure that all pupils are aware of the range of sanctions which may be applied against those engaging in bullying.
  • Involve pupils in anti-bullying campaigns in schools and embedded messages in the wider school curriculum.
  • Utilise pupil voice in providing pupil led education and support
  • Publicise the details of internal support, as well as external helplines and websites.
  • Offer support to pupils who have been bullied and to those who are bullying to address the problems they have.

Involvement and Liaison with Parents and Carers

We will:  

  • Make sure that key information about prejudice-based and discriminatory bullying (including policies and named points of contact) is available to parents/carers in a variety of formats via the school website.
  • Ensure all parents/carers know who to contact if they are worried about bullying and where to access independent advice.
  • Work with all parents/carers and the local community to address issues beyond the school gates that give rise to bullying.
  • Ensure that parents work with the school to role model positive behaviour for pupils, both on and offline.
  • Ensure parents are informed and involved in all areas of their pupils time within school.

Useful Links and Supporting Organisations

The following links may provide additional support to children, staff or families.